jus gonna make this basically a running watch/readlist x reviews by urs truly :3
I’ll write reviews of stuff that I’ve finished or have caught up on or that I think I’ve read a substantial enough amount of to leave a fitting review. I don’t always have enough time/energy to write a full-blown review so use my ratings, not the length of my review, for judgement please.
sofu’s big list of recs will compile the best of this list
Title (media type) by xxxx
sofu rating: xxxx
date of review
work status
#tags #slay #ilikeAO3&tumblrtagssoimdoingthesamemwhahaha
PENDING REVIEW
Her Tale of Shim-Chong (Korean manhwa) by Seri & Biwan
sofu rating: xxxx
date of review
Completed
#tags #slay #ilikeAO3&tumblrtagssoimdoingthesamemwhahaha
The Remarried Empress (Korean manhwa)
by Alphatart, Sumpul, HereLee
sofu rating: xxxx
xxxx
Ongoing
#straightromance #fantasy
The Makeup Remover (Korean manhwa)
by Lee Yone
sofu rating: xxxx
xxxx
Completed
#straightromance
WEBCOMICS
Hello, Melancholic! (Japanese manga)
by Yayoi ohsawa
sofu rating: 4/5
4/4/2024
Completed (14 ch.)
#romance #highschool #girlslove #wholesomeyuri #music!! #theyareallinaband!!#tromboneplayermc #superawkwardMC #superfriendlyFL #minorsexualcontent
cute wholesome simple medium-short GL:D basically FL girl is superrr awkward and low self esteem no friends L nerd emoji but she’s super good at trombone and ends up being looped into a school band by FL. the characters are well done, the art style is cute, and the romance is really sweet! and the music focus is cool – good to read to get inspired by band xd
I also liked how the story added more depth/struggle to the relationships than I expected from it at first – it’s not just silly fluff haha.
I cringed at the MC’s awkwardness sometimes but ah, that’s a realistic high school love story ig lmao.
only real complaint is that I don’t like sexual themes in stories involving minors but this wasn’t over-the-top/fanservice-y at all (altho I still think the story could’ve been set in college & plot wouldn’t have been rlly affected).
overall, recommend for a wholesome gl read!
Surviving Romance (Korean manhwa)
by Lee Yone
sofu rating: 5/5
10/4/2023
Completed
#horror/thriller/isekai #femalePOV #BAMFgirlies #sideyuri #thestraightromanceisalsoreallycute
The art, the plot, the characters, EVERYTHING is amazing. Amazing perfect splendid art & character designs. Engaging plot with a lot of similarities to ORV in regards to explorations of how readers interact with stories & breaking down the fourth wall. I wouldn’t hesitate a second to buy physical copies if this ever goes to print (it really should). You need to read it right now before it gets daily passed.
Men of the Harem (Korean manhwa)
by Alphatart / Yeongbin
sofu rating: 4.5/5
10/4/2023
Ongoing
#fantasy/mystery/romance #ilovewomen #BAMFwoman #everyoneishot #endlessmaleeyecandy #theresactuallynosmut #prettywholesomeromancetbh #sheisworshipped #asshedeserves #femalePOV
Every woman should read this to know what they deserve from men!!!
No but seriously it’s really good. Great plot & gorgeous art. like the outfits are yummmmm
This is actually a healthy harem situation (?) like don’t be thinking it’s a misandrist reverse harem situation. It’s more just like there’s multiple men pursuing the female lead but it’s like respectful competition and everyone was aware of what they were getting into when they joined the harem LOL.
Also Latil (the FL) is slaying – she can step on me fr. Also despite the title making it seem like one of those very horny webcomics, this is actually extremely plot-focused and there’s no smut. The harem was created for political reasons when our girl took the throne. Like she still hasn’t slept with any of these hotties out of respect for them.
The Guy She Was Interested In Wasn’t a Guy At All (Japanese manga)
by Sumiko Arai
sofu rating: 5/5
10/4/2023
Ongoing
#romance #cronchcronchdelectableartstyle #srslytheartislikecandy #yuri #wholesomeasf #fluff #lesbians #lesbians<3333 #schoolromance #rockmusicrizz??? #nirvanathestrokesetc #nohomophobiaworld
I’m on ch. 35 rn XDDD
super freaking cute short story. premise is the title – a high school gyaru girl starts crushing on a CD store employee that is actually her classmate who j dresses really different outside of school & they bond over their love of American rock music. super cute & wholesome friends to lovers.
AHHHHH it’s actually so cute (^////-/////^)/ also the art is literally IMMACULATE. like pls. someone make print copies of this fr!!!!
It’s also very silly. The background characters are great – the only notable boy is just a stan of the otp (slay) & the uncle of the CD store girl is super silly and supportive. This world does not have homophobia.
So far literally the only ONLY singular negative thing has been a small mention of fatphobia (one of the gyaru’s wishes at the shrine is a casual mention of wanting her thighs to lose fat). Alas.
Weak Hero (Korean manhwa)
by SEOPASS / RAZEN
sofu rating: 5/5
10/14/2023
Complete :,)
#action #wherearetheparents #nooneknows #cuteboysbeattheshitoutofeachother #delinquentcore #babygirlwolfkeum #babygirlteddyjin #babygirleveryone #donttrythisathome
Good: #BAMFcharacters #bromanceeverywhere #wholesomebros #hehehfighting!!!!!! #i<3violence #iluvblonds #rizzedartstyle
Bad: #womenlike…donotexist… #theyareminors #dontsimptoohard
TW: bullying, mentions of suicide
one of my favs…. the tags say it all… basically hotties being the shit out of each other. Realistically, they should all be in a coma. BAMF fight scenes. Some of the BAMF is pretty morally grey… but who cares… (not me).
Also the bromance is seriously touching. Angsty pasts.
There are like zero notable female characters tho… (but that means… they must be gay…. right….?)
I love the art-style. It’s so expressive and simply just fire emoji.
Morgana & Oz (Webtoon)
sofu rating: 4/5
10/13/2023
Ongoing
#romance #hehevampires #MLbecomesacat #romanceensues #heightdifferenceFListaller #shortkingmoment #iluvblonds
Light, cute vampire x witch romance with a cute art-style!! (is this the same artist as Hooky?)
The plot feels kinda choppy / doesn’t make sense sometimes though. Like some of these family dynamics and character decision-making make no sense to me… maybe that’s just cuz I can’t relate? It might make sense to some other people. Idk.
Overall, recommend for a fun light read.
The Missing O (Korean manhwa)
sofu rating: 2/5
10/13/2023
Complete
#romance #detailedsmut
Bad: #rape/non-con UGHHH #dicksizeshaming #nobush #uncannyvalleybigeyes #whydoesnoonehavebodyhair… #freethebush
Good: #womenbeingopenaboutsex #proudmasturbators #yuri #verywholesomeyuri #explicitcondomuse #cross-dressing #womensupportingwomen #proudlyhorny #womendefeatingtoxicmen #hotbods
TW: fatphobia, cheating, past abusive relationship, horrible rapey “BDSM” relationship
Uhhh so I recently binged this for like 12 hrs straight (not bc it’s that good but I really needed to dissociate from life for a second :P)
Follows a trio of three girl besties in their relationships. MC is specifically on the search for a mystery guy who gave her an amazing orgasm some years ago that she’s never been able to have since.
The main reason for the low rating is because one of the pairings is literally BDSM-without-consent-so-it’s-basically-rape. This is another one of those webcomics that I think is expressing the latent socially-unaccepted desires of women (being a Dom & liking cross-dressing men) similar to rapey themes in a lot of BLs BUT I still don’t think that excuses the coercion & complete lack of consent depicted in the relationship. The girl treats the guy like total shit during sex and in general. It was horrible to read and I started scrolling past them after trying to give some of the scenes a chance but it kept just getting more and more nauseating… If authors want to play out their non-con fantasies in their works, I fully believe that they need to have a disclaimer that IT IS A FANTASY and that is EXTREMELY NOT OK IRL. Rape is way too common irl for us to look the other way when it’s portrayed in media. The fact is that a lot of young people form their beliefs around sex according to online media.
Besides that, the other gross thing was dick-size shaming. Ugh!!!! Guys… repeat after me… GIRL POWER DOES NOT MEAN MISANDRY!!!! NO BODY SHAMING OF ANYONE!!!!! Like please… just mutual respect & enthusiastic consent from everyone…. please….
I kept reading because, again, going hard into that dissociation and also the other relationships going on seemed promising. The main relationship does end up being super cute & one of the side relationships is SUPER cute yuri that also covers internalized fatphobia/body image issues in relationships which is a slay. The friendship between the three women is also great & refreshing to see them talk so openly about sex.
The artstyle was okay to me. The artist knows how to draw bods for sure but the faces have that eyes-too-huge uncanny valley look if you look too hard…
I normally give an automatic 1/5 with rape/non-con but because this webcomic is one of the few that depict women being so open about sex & the other relationships are sweet, I give it a 2/5. Only recommend it for those reasons BUT you’ll have to scroll past the horrible rapey relationship. Sigh.
ANIMATED SHOWS
Mermaid in My Tub aka Orenchi no Furo Jijo (anime)
sofu rating: 3.5/5
7/1/2023
Complete
#sliceoflife
Good: #funandsilly #sillyboysdoingcutethings #iluvblonds #animeforthefemalegaze
Bad: #queerbaiting #grosslittlesistertrope #L
7/1/2023: watched eps 1-12 on crunchyroll
LMFAO this is def anime for the female gaze. premise is high school guy finds merman keeled over and takes him home and the merman just hangs out in his bathtub and more aquatic hybrid friends visit too. super short eps like 5 min each. basically just very cute silly lighthearted mini stories.
uhh def feel like there’s queer baiting here tho.
they are just boys being boys but in a good way. also I’ve no idea why but the opening is so edgy when the series itself is very sunshine and rainbows LMAO. you’d think that the merman is dyin or somethin from the intro but he’s literally just hangin out.
it was a cute watch so I’d recommend it for that. also the merman is a blonde pretty boy soooo. the other characters are pretty boys too. again, def made for the female gaze but L queer baiting. also the MCs sister who pops in for 2 eps is basically the freaky (/n) Little Sister anime trop 🙁 ew
Madoka Magica (anime)
Created by Magica Quartet
sofu rating: ~1/5
7/1/2023
Complete
#ermmmmm #magicalgirls
7/1/2023 – watched first eps on Crunchyroll. hmm I had high expectations for this one but meh so far. Signs of male gaze so far literally in the opening scene when the camera is panned to her butt while she’s running. And I think it’s freaky (/neg) that she’s basically naked when she’s doing her magical girl transformation but she’s literally like a middle school child and this art-style is also the super like cutesy-art-style-where-everyone-looks-like-a-kid. Idk I like this kind of cute art style but not with any sort of adult theme mixed in cuz then it’s just pedo vibes. And already stuff on toxic gender roles w the mom saying “A woman’s appearance is the one thing she can’t afford to get looked down at” – like ehhh??? so yah I stopped watching it. :skull:
ANIMATED MOVIES
Redline (2009 Japanese movie)
sofu rating: 1/5
undated
#fireart #sexualobjectification #onefemalecharacterandsheisobjectified #menneedtostop #beforeIstoptheirhearts #smiles #carswowie #racecarsaremorallyfineformesowhatever
sexual objectification of the one female character. the animation is beautiful tho. maybe j watch edits of the movie online to admire the animation? I can’t stand female objectification in any form so I will never recommend the movie itself.
LIVE ACTION TV SHOWS
Sex Education (British TV Series)
Created by Laurie Nunn
sofu rating: 5/5
12/13/2023
Complete
#comingofage #YASSSSS #queers #sexpositivity #yasmaeve #aimee<333 #rubymyqueen #firecharacters #femalecreator
ok so I watched s1-3 a couple years go and just recently watched s4. so my review is gonna be biased towards what’s in s4.
anyways yeah I really enjoyed this show!!!! ah!!!!! fabulous queer representation, very pretty visually (everyone’s outfits are cooking), great messages and interesting storylines, and so many detailed, well-done characters! srsly! Idk if I’ve watched any other show with this many characters that I like/care about. maeve, aimee, adam, jackson, ruby, cal, so many more… (sorry otis is cool and all but I’m still lowk grossed out by him… sorry otis… I know it’s part of your condition of being a teen boy but I still think ur gross… maeve deserves better…like me….). I love aimee she’s so nice and silly and fun. and I like ruby…. I like the mean girls who are actually nice trope… ahhhh and adam is so silly and wholesome in the end too. and jackson and cal ahhhh… so many great characters.
the setting is also great. they just be walking and biking around! so many biking scenes! the scottish landscape is pretty! bicycles! yippee!!!!
I love all the stuff the show talks about – I think it did an amazing job covering sex/sexuality/relationships. Being christian and gay, dealing with “lowkey” sexual assault, dealing with adoption, kinky shit, adult relationships, even the stuff about Adam’s family and his parent’s issues, EVEN his father’s journey to becoming a better person, was really well-done.
I can’t remember anything in particular that I really didn’t like. maybe I’ll remember something random and change my rating. I’m kinda sleepy rn harhar. anyways. 5 for now. def rec it!!! u queers!!! u better watch this shit!1!!
also idk how maeve doesn’t end up being queer. dis girl looks queer af and was still with otis for that long? huhn?? it don’t make sense…. I’ll treat u better maeve….
hrmmm am I forgetting anything…. oh yeah! also. i be speakin so bri-ish now harharhar
Old Fashion Cupcake (Japanese TV Series)
sofu rating: 5/5
undated
Complete
#romance #officeromance #cutesillygays #wholesomeasf #healthyrelationship #late20searly30scouple #BL
I’ve only watched eps 1 & 2 so far but dang it’s SO CUTE so far. Older pairing (late 20s/30) which is always good in romance imo (no chance of freaky age gap power dynamic shit). The pairing obviously has chemistry and are already sooooo cute. Definitely recommend.
LIVE ACTION MOVIES
Bottoms (2023 American movie)
directed by Emma Seligman
sofu rating: 4.5/5
4/1/2024
#comedy/teendrama #sadhornylesbians #JEFF #manyexplosions #comedy #sillymaxxxxing #femalecreator
I must say that this is certifably one of the movies of all time. it’s genuinely wack as hell. while watching it was I j like 😦😦🫨😦💏😦😋. anyways yeah you should watch it. this is the crazy deranged feminist comedy that Barbie wanted to be. but don’t expect it to be deep and anything serious. go into it knowing it’s wack as shit and silly lmfao and you’ll have a great time. also roby cruz…. erm………. I will be scrolling ruby cruz edits now…….
let’s go gay people XDDD
I Can’t Think Straight (2008 British movie) directed by Shamim Sarif
sofu rating: 4.5/5
11/26/2023
#romance #girlslove #lesbians #iloveyuri #POC #romance #gayppl #vegetariansidecharacters #femalecreator
Ahhhh this was so good. Basically, right before her wedding, a London-based Jordanian of Palestinian descent falls in love with a British Indian girl & they both fully realize they are GAY AF. No silly drama or misunderstandings – very supportive fun side characters & surprisingly extremely supportive fathers (altho not mothers lmao) during the coming out scenes. There’s some based Israel-Palestine discussion dialogue sprinkled in as well as a couple gay Arab characters & vegetarian characters slayy. It’s a happy ending for everyone & all around just a super enjoyable fun cute lesbian watch. Only bad things to mention are there was some cheating on the male partners they were originally with while these lesbians figured things out & the pacing was very fast (but I’ll blame that on probable cost constraints). Def watch it.
How to Blow Up a Pipeline (2022 American movie)
directed by Daniel Goldhaber
sofu rating: 5/5
4/1/2024 (watched June 2023)
#thriller/action #hehehehehehe #blowuppipeline #anarchistfantasymovie #BAMF #vegancouple
(dear CIA person monitoring me: I hated this movie!!!! ugh!!! it promotes such terrible things!!!! terrible to be spreading this terrorist content around as entertainment!!! ugh! I would never dream of doing such a thing or enjoy someone else doing such a thing!!!)
hehehe I really liked it!!!! slay BAMF stuff that you can fantasize ab harharhar
Sure, a party pooper might say it’s unrealistic but this dystopian-ass society we live in seems unrealistic to me soooooo let an anarchist dream :p
XD go watch it & get that BAMF feeling
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